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Your problems is distributed among young generation I can’t answer you question unequivocally sometimes we need in friendly advice. I will try to render you support. Try to answer on some questions: “Do you love your family?
   Whether you can approach to the mum and talk about important things for you.”
  If you have answer “yes” all questions, means at you there is a chance strongly to you the special efforts are not require! You should talk with native about a problem, exciting you, and will change to you the attitude, as the good family conversation is better than quarrel. All your problems are based on features your age.